{"id":8664,"date":"2019-08-13T18:18:08","date_gmt":"2019-08-13T08:18:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.empoweringambitiouswomen.com\/?p=8664"},"modified":"2019-08-13T18:18:08","modified_gmt":"2019-08-13T08:18:08","slug":"career-coach-tips-how-to-take-control-of-your-career","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.empoweringambitiouswomen.com\/career-coach-tips-how-to-take-control-of-your-career\/","title":{"rendered":"Career Coach Tips – How to Take Control of Your Career"},"content":{"rendered":"
\nIf you are waiting for the winds to change or passively accepting the unacceptable at your place of work, then you need to start taking control of your career!<\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n
I\u2019ve been coaching for a long time now but there\u2019s one client I\u2019ll never forget. It was through working with her that I realised how many of us, especially women, don\u2019t realise we can control our own careers.<\/span> A<\/span>s I listened to her, I heard words like \u201cwaiting\u201d and \u201ctime\u201d and \u201cappropriate\u201d. I wanted to hear her say \u201cplanning\u201d and \u201cready\u201d and \u201cchasing opportunity\u201d. The conversation brought home to me how many of us sit and wait for our career to happen and don\u2019t do anything to drive it.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
Our career should not be something that happens to us. The days where people waited their turn for promotion are long gone. Today, if you want something, you need to go out and get it.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
It worries me when I see people passively accepting what they are offered. They are letting someone else have control over their careers. What\u2019s worse is that often this is how they live their lives.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
I want you to know you<\/em> are in charge of your life and that includes your career.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
So, what did I do with my client?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
You can make your own choices<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
First, I helped her realise she had power; power to make choices. She could choose when and how she wanted to manage and develop her career.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
We started working on a career plan;<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
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- where she wanted to go in her career,<\/span><\/li>\n
- assessment of her current skills, knowledge and experience, and her readiness to move on from her comfort spot,<\/span><\/li>\n
- personal and professional development she would need along the way and where to get it,<\/span><\/li>\n
- and we identified specific roles she was interested in<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Together we put this information into a plan with some specific goals to work towards along the way and ways to achieve them.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
In many ways, this was the easiest part of the process. Challenging and changing the assumptions and behavioural patterns she\u2019d built up over time was much more difficult.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
You can change your mind<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
It\u2019s funny, but there\u2019s a real difference between accepting you have power over your career choices,<\/span> and accepting you have the power to act on them.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
One\u2019s conceptual and the other is practical, I guess. Accepting the concept doesn\u2019t take us out of the comfort zone as dramatically as having to change our behaviour does.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
My client struggled. While she was confident in her abilities, she wasn\u2019t used to speaking up and asking for what she wanted. But that\u2019s what you need to do if you want to get ahead.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
Remember, it\u2019s up to you to let your manager know when you\u2019re ready to take on a new challenge and when you feel ready to take the next step. You are the only one who can change their perception of you and your future.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
To help her get started we worked out some specific behaviours she had to learn<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
Following is an outline on these specific behaviours and where I began in helping to take control of her career:<\/p>\n
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- ask to be part of new projects and challenges when they come up (instead of waiting to be selected)<\/span><\/li>\n
- talk with her manager about her career goals and seek specific feedback on areas (and opportunities) for improvement<\/span><\/li>\n
- take a chance and apply for opportunities without holding herself back<\/span><\/li>\n
- ask for recognition of a job well done<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
Was it easy for her to change these behaviours? No. They\u2019d been embedded for a long time. But she had the advantage of working with a coach who supported and encouraged her and<\/span> kept her accountable<\/span> for results.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n
If you\u2019re not working with a coach, you can still follow my process to start taking back control of your career too.<\/p>\n
As the only person who knows where you\u2019re going and when you want to get there, it is YOU who has to drive your career. Don\u2019t leave your career in the hands of someone who doesn\u2019t know you or doesn\u2019t care.<\/span><\/h3>\n
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